人生偶有失意，在所難免，一向得意容易讓人忘形;為失敗哀怨，對現實不滿也是無用之舉，一切當以心寬化解之。

俗話說：不如意事常八九。如此人生豈不讓人傷心透了?否。有句話你是知道的，叫好事多磨。我們應該有這個信念：失意是一種磨煉的過程，心即使在冰凍三尺之下也不會涼的。有瑞雪兆豐年之說，雪愈大，年愈豐。

比海更寬的是天空，比天空更大的是人的心靈。生活不論如何磨人，如何將你壓縮在一個四方的小盒子里，但思維的空間是不受限制的，心靈的視野沒有藩籬，無比寬廣，任你馳騁。來去自如，生命的迷人之處就在這里!

站得高，你就看得遠。紅橙黃綠青藍紫，七彩人生，各色不同;酸甜苦辣咸，五種味道，各有所好;喜怒哀樂悲恐驚，七種情感，品之不荊沒有一帆風順的人生。如果一生無挫折，未免太單調、太無趣、太乏味。沒有失敗的尷尬和忍辱哪來成功的喜悅?也許你就是忍受不了人情的冷暖和失敗的打擊，抱頭哀嘆，早已說過不如意事常八九，你自己還會遇到，那就當它是橫亙于面前的一塊石頭吧。擺正它，蹬上去!也許視野會更開闊、心胸會更豁達呢!

人很善良，常常把寬容給了陌路，把溫柔給了愛人，卻忘了給自己留一點。有一句話很有用，叫沒什么。對別人總要說許多沒什么，或出于禮貌，或出于善良，或出于故作瀟灑，或出于無可奈何;或是真不在意，或是別有用心。不管出于什么，誰讓生活有那么多不盡人意之處?如果你要勸解自己，也要學著這么說。缺少陽光的日子很憂郁，你要學會說沒什么，失去朋友的生活很寂寞，你要學會說沒什么。自己已經很累了，需要一種真誠的諒解，說句沒什么，對你自己，對自己疲憊的心靈。這么說著，并不是讓你放縱所有的過錯，只是渴求自拔;也不是決意忘懷所有的遺憾，只是拒絕沉溺。自己勸慰自己才管用。

人有同情心，見別人傷心——除了敵人和仇家——自己也不會快樂，總要上前勸一勸。勸告是出于善心，言語也很有哲理，然而聽的人未必都能聽得進去，聽進去了也未必照此行事，因為劇痛使人麻木。有位女作家說：我不勸任何人任何事。解鈴還需系鈴人，自己心上的疙瘩只有自己親自動手方可解開，朋友的話，善良人的話都只是催化劑。自己才是起決定作用的因素。

總之，失意在所難免，權且把心放寬。

1.一個人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風景，聽陌生的歌，然后在某個不經意的瞬間，你會發現，原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。

one is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福，不是長生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活愿望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃，想被愛的時候有人來愛你。

happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. it’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.愛情是燈，友情是影子，當燈滅了，你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以給你力量的人。

love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. when the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。

i love you not for who you are, but for who i am before you.

5.愛情，要么讓人成熟，要么讓人墮落。

love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜，大多數人的愛情，都是負重的。

if you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中，人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人，用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人，再用一天的時間去愛上一個人，到最后呢，卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。

we all live in the past. we take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后，你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富，它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。

one may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. when you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛，但是隨著年齡的增長，終于領悟到愛一個人，就算用一輩子的時間，還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人，體諒這個人，直到愛上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。

when you are young, you may want several love experiences. but as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. you need time to know, to forgive and to love. all this needs a very big mind.

10.當明天變成了今天成為了昨天，再重要的某一天，我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車里，與相鄰列車交錯時，仿佛自己在前進的錯覺，而是我們真實的在成長，在這件事里成了另一個自己。

when tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. this is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. it is the truth that we've all grown up. and we become different.

11.離開我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的.痛。

if you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾經擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬于自己的，不要放棄。已經失去的，留作回憶。

don’t forget the things you once you owned. treasure the things youcan’t get. don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜歡并習慣了對變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會知道什么是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人，充滿變數，我于是后退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見真誠的感情。

i love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can i know what will not be abandoned by time. for example, when you love someone, changes are all around. then i step backward and watching it silently, then i see the true feelings.

14.男人的愛是俯視而生，而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。

men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. if love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界，壞的愛情是你為了一個人舍棄世界。

good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前，應該一直留有一個地方，獨自留在那里。然后去愛。不知道是什么，不知道是誰，不知道如何去愛，也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情，也許永遠都沒有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛情本身。

we shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. and then begin to love. have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. just wait for one love. maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發現，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛的很深，很深，來日歲月，會讓你知道，它不過很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛，必須和時日一起成長。

is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? we always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. but one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. we all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. the deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在這個世界上，只有真正快樂的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂。

in this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果沒有感性，就要理性;如果沒有理性，就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了，她只有不幸。

if a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的愛情，需要的不是傷心，而是時間，一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。

an unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.a badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.

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